According to psychologists who regularly counsel couples to resolve misunderstandings and build better relationships, many small behaviors or actions can destroy long-lasting relationships.
Let's find out from some of these experts which things happy couples actually avoid and which things they stick to in order to keep their relationship healthy. The reason for using the two words avoid here is that sometimes people do many behaviors in their subconscious mind without knowing it. However, those with happy possessions try to do everything they do with thought and respect. From there I will discuss the things they avoid.
Do not hesitate to discuss anything
There are many things that come up in a relationship that may be a bit shy to discuss with normal people. A happy couple can freely talk to their partner about anything. No matter how complicated they are, they share with each other and try to solve various issues among themselves. Never want to avoid each other's feelings. Be it financial complications or any problems related to in-laws they discuss among themselves first. There should be frank dialogue between couples about sex.
If the couple does not discuss all kinds of issues or they talk less, then they lose trust and confidence in each other. Suspicion or hatred is inevitably born there. So the happy couple discuss all matters with patience and interest.
One does not harbor anger on one another
Those couples who are unhappy create distance between themselves due to lack of availability and frustration. They don't get things from their partner or when they quarrel about something, they keep their anger in themselves. However, the happy couple does not remember the quarrels between them for long. They forgive themselves easily in small matters. It's not like happy couples don't fight. But they learn from that fight and move forward together.
One does not make bad comments about one another
A happy couple never uses negative words about each other. According to experts, there are many couples, who often characterize their partner as being unattractive, lazy, inactive and so on. This is totally inappropriate. Happy couples never do that. When they talk to someone about their partner, they speak positively and respectfully.
Do not pry into each other's personal affairs
When there is mutual trust in a relationship, there is no need to check mobile text messages or emails. They are less interested in their partner's personal matters and give some space. There is no trouble finding anything because there is nothing hidden in a healthy normal relationship.
They never lie to themselves
Lying has no place in a happy and healthy marriage. They have the honest courage to speak the truth about everything. So no matter how complicated a matter is, they never lie outright. If there is any shadow of falsehood in a relationship, then distance is determined. Keeping the relationship going takes all the energy it takes to nurture and hide lies. As a result, there is no time for oneself. They do not consider their partner as competition. Happy couples consider themselves to be of the same team all the time. There is no competition between them. own
If the partner seems to be one's enemy, then there is nothing more turbulent than that relationship.
Don't think of your partner as a competitor
There can be disagreements on various issues in married life. Naturally there can be an argument about something. In this situation, the happy couple do not stick to their position and come to a decision through some compromise. They don't enter the race to win that argument. They do not want to ignore themselves in any way.
One does not ignore the other
All relationships are an ongoing thing. There needs to be respect and love for each other. The relationship that exists between themselves at the beginning of married life should be cherished for a long time. There are different ways to spend time with each other. Ignoring them and spending the whole day on the internet, not paying attention to each other, then the relationship will not be very sweet.
It has been observed that happy couples spend more time with each other. After returning home from their offices, they eat dinner together, sit together and talk, watch movies. Thus the relationship between them becomes stronger.
